Sep 15, 2013

Plan A Wedding: All the ways Pinterest is wrong

Who relies on Pinterest to plan their weddings?  I use it to not only get ideas, but also to determine my to-buy list.  While planning my wedding and talking to friends, I found one consistent trend.  Some things on Pinterest are obviously over the top and unlikely to happen.  Such as fireworks as you are leaving the reception.  However, other things seem like prevalent wedding trends but in reality no one I spoke with had these.  So save yourself some money and do not feel like you need these things (unless you really want it).

The Bride/Groom Chair Sign
How often do you see those signs on Pinterest for the bride and groom?  These are beautifully ornate or just simple signs.  Even when it looks like the bride and groom chair did not face the guests, these signs are present.  
Yet almost every wedding I've been to there have not been signs!  Maybe a different sash or some streamers added to the family and wedding party.  But no signs for the bride and groom.  Why?  Because they are not necessary!  Everyone at the wedding should know who the bride and grooms are!  We hope.  So save yourself some money and headaches, just skip this step.

The Place Card Stand
Such a beautiful idea, but if they do not also serve as a favor.  Guess what happens to them.  They are thrown out!  So you just spent about $1 per person for an item that is just thrown out.  Of course you can also make it yourself, because brides usually have a lot of time on their hand to make stands.

Place Card in General
Why does it have to be separate place card for each guest that just gets thrown away as soon as they are at their table?  Instead, do what we are considering.  Invest in a large frame (that you'll likely use) and list people's name and table.  Still put their name in alphabetical order instead of by table.  Easier for guests to find their name!

Cheap Bridesmaid Dress Sites
You can get some great ideas for bridesmaid dresses, but be cautious of the "cheap" sites.  You want to trust these sites because so many have pinned the dress.  But so few have actually bought from these sites.  Do your own research, every time!

What frustrates you about Pinterest Weddings?

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